Shaq's ex-wife Shaunie cheated on him with 3 men and he was extorted by one of them - page 6

You don’t need to get married to share income or have a family. That contract is just something that can screw you over

Nah women are opportunists and they have the most opportunities. He's right but he made it sound corny and n1ggas DO put them bi#ches on pedestal especially in the south and Midwest. East coast they like to claim to be Spanish or something else and out West I'm sure they a little more prevalent with it being all liberal for so long.

Not slandering bud, I could gaf if someone is married or not, I’m not even against it but I see what it is for what it is. A meaningless contract in the name of “love” that can only be used against you if things sour (in this country 50% clip)

I get the whole tradition, family structure etc but this is a new era. You don’t need that contract to achieve any of those things and shouldn’t unless you have safe guards in place. Especially for guys with money, fu#k around end up paying alimony

And as far as money..you know what you’re getting into ahead of time with marriage. When I eventually marry my girl, I want her to have access to my resources and accounts because that’s the mother of my child who I love, trust, and respect. Our bond is real...life isn’t a Future music video where she’s waiting in the cut to siphon my account and tw3rk on other guys in the club

That’s why not just any person is supposed to have access to our lives like that. There’s a reason we marry people we love and trust, and hopefully have been with for years. If you don’t love, trust, or fully know the person, then yes, stay single because you both will lead miserable lives.

Shaq from Jersey

I always knew he could get somebody touched and would do it too if you play with him

How do you know that's his cousin?

It can if you’re marrying strictly for money or business purposes. If you actually love the person, money ain’t a thang.

Not that it matters what other people think...but marriage can be necessary in getting ahead in life, as well. It shows people that you’re not a complete loser and that you can commit to something bigger than yourself. It also shows you must have somethings going right for you if somebody else can stand to be with you for the rest of their lives. I mean we like to talk about marriage as ball busting for men; but don’t forget these women gotta live with us and commit to us as well. It takes sacrifice from both parties to make a real marriage work. sh1t’s definitely not for the weak hearted.

And like I said, marriage does have flaws if you’re not ready or not down with the person you’re marrying. So I can definitely respect people taking their time to settle and whatnot. Just be aware that life isn’t always going to be like it is when you’re young; and marriage can be what separates 35-50 year old men from having loving families and responsibilities, to forever acting like a 21 year old urban male on a message forum

And as far as money..you know what you’re getting into ahead of time with marriage. When I eventually marry my girl, I want her to have access to my resources and accounts because that’s the mother of my child who I love, trust, and respect. Our bond is real...life isn’t a Future music video where she’s waiting in the cut to siphon my account and tw3rk on other guys in the club

That’s why not just any person is supposed to have access to our lives like that. There’s a reason we marry people we love and trust, and hopefully have been with for years. If you don’t love, trust, or fully know the person, then yes, stay single because you both will lead miserable lives.