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This is why a lot of men stopped going out - page 5

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WiseBeyondYears
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  '25 
 eashawty said
I feel u but the only person that’s gon know is u & the hoe, & even if anyone else did know dont nobody give a fu#k
That's the whole point! Imma know n1gga! I will buy a bish food, weed, and drinks. Dats nuthin. But that's where I stop. Anything else is dependent upon what move we making together, what finesse play we gone run etc etc
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BigJino triple plat x4
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  '14 
If you go to the club with the intention of meeting women and getting laid you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Over half the time you're gonna leave empty handed and go home and beat off lmao
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Illustrativemin
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  '16 
 authenic said
Def was triggered
I respect tf out you for this transparency!

The shoe does not fit though Brodie!
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eashawty triple plat x1
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  '10 
 WiseBeyondYears said
That's the whole point! Imma know n1gga! I will buy a bish food, weed, and drinks. Dats nuthin. But that's where I stop. Anything else is dependent upon what move we making together, what finesse play we gone run etc etc
Food weed & drinks can easily cost just as much or more than just buyin the pu$$y & it’s gon take way more time
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marcchrome triple plat x3
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  '04 
people do not think for themselves and believe anything holy sh1t...
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BalmainReyes
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  '15 
 Illustrativemin said
Anyways, that’s actually the wrong advice. Seems like you aren’t completely in a position to try and put yourself out there, what I’d say to you is focus on yourself. Put yourself in position mentally, physically, and financially. If you do that correctly, you’ll have to put minimal effort into getting women, what you’ll need to properly navigate the field if you establish yourself on all facets is a proper method of vetting your prospects.

Once you cross a certain threshold, a particular type of woman (succubus) will try and sink their claws into you, you have to have the knowledge to recognize them and the will power to get them up off you.

Work on self first, then work on your awareness so you don’t get put in the trick bag early, after that the work should come easy.

If you do it backwards you’re bound to lose.

Free game plair!
Played the focus on yourself game for years, it made me an animal.

If anything I overdo it, because while I’m doing better financially and will be having my own place this fall, it made my game much more dull since I been heavy into isolation to give myself pure focus on improvement.
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BalmainReyes
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  '15 
 WiseBeyondYears said
That's the whole point! Imma know n1gga! I will buy a bish food, weed, and drinks. Dats nuthin. But that's where I stop.
So you’ll pay for pu$$y, but not pay for pu$$y
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eashawty triple plat x1
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  '10 
 BalmainReyes said
So you’ll pay for pu$$y, but not pay for pu$$y
He’ll spend equal or more money & way more time to indirectly pay for pu$$y instead of skippin the bullsh1t because he wants to feel loved lol
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Pretty Tone
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  '17 
Nobody told you to buy these h0es drinks
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Illustrativemin
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  '16 
 BalmainReyes said
Played the focus on yourself game for years, it made me an animal.

If anything I overdo it, because while I’m doing better financially and will be having my own place this fall, it made my game much more dull since I been heavy into isolation to give myself pure focus on improvement.
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One step at a time, don’t rush the process.

Happy to hear your progress and level of success you’ve achieved so far.

Get your place, settle in get it put together how you like so it’s presentable enough not to call you dusty or broke or w/e these birds be saying.

Then slowly start putting yourself out there. Maybe go to bars or clubs/functions that aren’t directly in your area to start practicing your approach and get comfortable again with the game, once you fell like your feet are on the ball start hitting your local spots for higher chances of success.

Happy hunting bro, don’t get discouraged cause the h0es are endlessly out there and looking.
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WiseBeyondYears
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  '25 
 BalmainReyes said
So you’ll pay for pu$$y, but not pay for pu$$y
Imma drink and smoke weed anyway, that lil Outback steakhouse sh1t ain't nuthin. We talmbout n1ggaz buying h0es chanel N Dior and whatever other BS she come up wit. You won't even buy a bish a drink how you ever get past 1st base?
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Mydrunkenstyle
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  '19 
I don’t buy drinks for random broads.
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Badnewz100 triple plat x8
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  '06 
Yea even when I frequently went to clubs I never bought drinks. Especially when my boy who went to clubs and never drank told me he never buys bi#ches drinks but will wear they asses out after they take him home from getting drunk on other n1ggas dime.
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WiseBeyondYears
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  '25 
 Mydrunkenstyle said
I don’t buy drinks for random broads.
I was a dranker. At one point I drunk Hennessy everyday for 2yrs straight... Every single day. But at the time my homies was running a nightclub so I was up in there a lot and it just comes with the territory
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Black Excellence triple plat x2
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  '10 
 BalmainReyes said
Played the focus on yourself game for years, it made me an animal.

If anything I overdo it, because while I’m doing better financially and will be having my own place this fall, it made my game much more dull since I been heavy into isolation to give myself pure focus on improvement.
Yea this is the tricky part. I dabble between focusing on stacking bread and going out with the fellas, I’ve noticed my game not as smooth as before. I’ve worked more on bettering myself, respecting others, looking at different perspectives outside of mine own…..and low-key you gotta throw all that sh1t out the window.

The aggressive energy I had when I was younger is really what appeals to a woman’s nature, especially in club settings. Not small talk, not getting to know you, just aggressive, spicy sh1t.

Kinda had an awakening about all this after the last time I went out and compared it to how I used to talk when I was tipsy, just approaching whoever. I see why people get more into religion or just stay away from outside activities, that sh1t really regresses you as a person.


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MONEY WORLD
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  '22 
 fallinginpie said
Where the fu#k at lol
-The Three Diamond Door
-Honore Club
-The Evergreen
-Carmelo's
-Union Pool (not as good as pre covid, but it's still a noteworthy spot to pick up young girls that are fu#ked up out of their minds late night)
-House of Yes
-Nowadays
-Vacations

So many spots in NYC bro. It's a party every fu#kin night.
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BalmainReyes
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  '15 
 Illustrativemin said
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One step at a time, don’t rush the process.

Happy to hear your progress and level of success you’ve achieved so far.

Get your place, settle in get it put together how you like so it’s presentable enough not to call you dusty or broke or w/e these birds be saying.

Then slowly start putting yourself out there. Maybe go to bars or clubs/functions that aren’t directly in your area to start practicing your approach and get comfortable again with the game, once you fell like your feet are on the ball start hitting your local spots for higher chances of success.

Happy hunting bro, don’t get discouraged cause the h0es are endlessly out there and looking.
Never even considered going to farther spots to practice before hitting my locals. Good looks
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R WiZ
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  '15 
Nothing new here. This been the M.O. for shorties forever. These young ones just post everything, smart phone Gen is in their 20s now.
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BalmainReyes
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  '15 
 Black Excellence said
Yea this is the tricky part. I dabble between focusing on stacking bread and going out with the fellas, I’ve noticed my game not as smooth as before. I’ve worked more on bettering myself, respecting others, looking at different perspectives outside of mine own…..and low-key you gotta throw all that sh1t out the window.

The aggressive energy I had when I was younger is really what appeals to a woman’s nature, especially in club settings. Not small talk, not getting to know you, just aggressive, spicy sh1t.

Kinda had an awakening about all this after the last time I went out and compared it to how I used to talk when I was tipsy, just approaching whoever. I see why people get more into religion or just stay away from outside activities, that sh1t really regresses you as a person.
Seriously. I got the most s3x and women in my early 20s when I wasn’t on sh1t. Fast forward to now doing better in every aspect except living independent and I’ve become a boring adult. Sucks.
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Escobar97
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  '07 
The whole "club" experience is super played out,
work on yourselves G'z, make yourself better
go on a coffee date or 2 by the second one you should know if shes "her"
see if she get's the door for you or shows any genuine interest it's gotta be mutual.
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Chargethemhoes
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  '25 
 Illustrativemin said
Brother said he gets more play at clubs overseas.

When tf you have time to be overseas when you perpetually post on this site? You practically live here.

Can’t be making random rage bait threads all day AND claim to be overseas or even get any amount of play to begin with “plair”.

We know that’s a lie.
He’s not from America
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postemupndunkit
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  '16 
 ChrisPartlowFro said
I’ve never once thought about Boxden on vacation, I barely remember it’s there on the weekends.
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That’s his point
Imagine roaming for fu#king bx
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Mal215 triple plat x1
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  '15 
 Illustrativemin said
Brother said he gets more play at clubs overseas.

When tf you have time to be overseas when you perpetually post on this site? You practically live here.

Can’t be making random rage bait threads all day AND claim to be overseas or even get any amount of play to begin with “plair”.

We know that’s a lie.
Loser sh1t cause he’s a loser
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Mal215 triple plat x1
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  '15 
 Donnie said
If a h0e say take my ig I walk away
Nbs she might be too young or too young minded for me
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eucalyptus triple plat x11
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  '11 
If you’re not getting any play. That sounds like a personal problem.
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