Physique vs mouthpiece: What gets the ladies? - page 5

Agreed but the only thing is when it comes to physique, idk if you talking stupid swole, but most females ain’t even looking for that. If you get too big, most are either turned off by it or scared or both, and like dude above me said, at that point you moreso doing it to flex on other dudes lmao. When it comes to females, really all that’s needed is staying slim and keeping an athletic, defined look.

Man I saw this sh1t in full effect last night and it definitely did feel good. Went to a rave/concert for NYE and ended up at a hotel afterparty. For a lil background, I lost 110 lbs over 2022 so the last time a lotta these mfs seen me I was still fat. As of now I got that lean tall athletic build, I’m 6’4” 170 lbs. It was a rotation of like 4 different females that kept trying to get close to me and talk to me and I wasn’t even doing sh1t or even trying lmao a mf was high as Hell minding my own. Getting yo body right and developing a good sense of style are invaluable when it comes to females. I was getting compliments on everything. “Omg you lost so much weight. Omg you smell so good. I love yo pants. I love yo ice.” Mfs was in that bi#ch lookin mad as fu#k like “Who the fu#k is this dude.” lmao. I ain’t even a pretty boy or nun either but when you try yo best to rock what you was given, that effort is definitely noticed. And while we on the topic, GET YALL FRAGRANCE GAME RIGHT!! Invest and get the strong expensive sh1t, it’s worth it’s weight in gold when it comes to s3x appeal. That sh1t literally fu#k wit a bi#ch senses and will have her secondhand smelling you a week after she last seen you lmao. It leaves an instinctual type of mark that I think can stand out even harder than the visual of you in some cases. That sh1t will literally make a bi#ch wanna taste you lmao. I got countless compliments bout my scent throughout the night, but at the afterparty this chick eventually came and sat right next to me and was straight up like “Aight I been smelling something amazing all fu#king night no matter where I move to and I realized it was you, so I honestly needed to get closer to it. You smell intoxicating. “

I was like yea, this sh1t is a WEAPON.

You gotta look at it like..look at iron man he has all the trinkets but without his core reactor he's nothing..that's the same thing with guys you can have all the trinkets, a nice car, bread, etc but without confidence/ a mouthpiece you're lame

Physique will get the attention
Mouthpiece will keep them
/thread

Conversation rules the nation!!! As a skinny dude growing up I used to think bigger and buffer dudes had it all. But hearing from females and hearing dudes lack of convo, umm she coming with me . Steal a woman's mind and the rest will follow. A woman wants substance and mind stimulated. And it's not how much you say but what you say and how you say it!! Not knocking anyone for being fit but you better come with more if you wanna keep her

Imma chubby cat.


Being a big guy wit a mouthpiece>>>>>>

If I was a fat broke loser I could still pull and retain quality bi#ches if I was blessed with the gift of gab.

"Men fall in love with what they see and that's why women wear makeup, women fall in love with what they hear that's why men lie"

Mane it aint even close, its the mouth piece. i know way too many dude pullin bi#ches left and right that are not too good lookin. im a good lookin dude with ok game and my friends pull em way more than me.

Confidence/ being able to talk.

bi#ches only tell me I'm attractive after I pull them.

So the same female can see me at the store but won't say sh1t.

It's not until I start talking , they notice I have manners and know how to talk, then later on they comment on my looks. Then proceed to tell me no matter how good I look if I came at them like I had no sense or no confidence, I'd get curved.



Side note- I never been confident to just walk up to a female up until maybe like 4-5 years ago. Always been shy. But idk what happened. I realized 1 day, I'm going to the gym, to look good and feel good, especially for females, but I'm being a bi#ch and not talking to them?

Then I also told my self, the worst that can happen is they say no, and you go about your day. A simple "NO" is what us n1ggas be afraid of, so we run to the internet to pull h0es who have 50 other n1ggas to filter through. Once I realized all I'm dealing with is a possible "yes" or "no" and the fact I probably won't see them again. I just developed this new me, who ain't scared to talk, especially since I know im not ugly. My numbers have went up.

Now if she works with you, or works at a store you frequent . Gotta approach it differently, because you will have to see her again. These types I actually try to build something with before I attack.

Mouthpiece > Physique

This is coming from a dude who’s been in the fitness game for years and have actual dating/pick up experience.

If yall object then yall dont know women at all, just yapping on hypothetical bro-speak.

MOST WOMEN get wet with words, men with eyes, thats an evolutionary fact.

Conversation trumps physique.......you could have a nice body but if you have no conversation or sense of humor it doesnt matter. Females are emotion driven. Make them laugh stimulate their mind and they are putty in your hands. Words are spels use them well and you can get any woman you want.

This. You can be a runway male supermodel if you don't know what to say it's pointless. sh1t the fat guy with a double chin and a 12 pack and some tats might take the girl home that night. Also in the digital age things are a lot different, it's like chess compared to checkers when compared to how things were in high school and before ig/social media. Texting also changed a lot of sh1t for the worst for a lot of people, that's why an ol head that was the man in the 80s-90s will give outdated advice nowadays

Having both is better but that's just too obvious... Like being feared and loved is better than just being plain old feared.

Both

But I know fat dudes who get pu$$y all day without having to take 2 hours out of their day to exercise

So mouthpiece

When I was complete diesel a summer ago I saw some sh1t happen for me to and I wasn't even expecting it...but a bad mouthpiece is what turns off women more so than a lumpy body. Physique matters, but what comes out of your mouth and what you say to woman and how you say it is what stimulates her all day and night.

Don't get me wrong, physique helps your bedroom performance but the #1 thing women ask me is

"Talk to me." in bed and everywhere else They never ask me 'Flex for me.' It never fails. Never.




I'm with you, but I do want my abs back.

I'm in the gym now and I told the girls I'm cool with I'm working out for the summer. They like 'It's the fall!' and I'm like 'excactly.'

Mouthpiece >

Looks will get them but what you say will make them stay.

I know guys that have girls buying them drinks because they like them, but 5 min of awkwardness turns them away. However, they still get play.

Just like guys with a ditsy broad, we'll put up with it just long enough.

Men are not women.

Of course you want your body right, you want every advantage, but...

A man's confidence/demeanor/charisma/swag is so much more important than his look that the question itself is laughable.

I'm so glad the first n1gga who really schooled me to the game was a 5'5 gold mouth n1gga from Houston and the first n1gga I saw hitting 4 or 5 chicks at once, all laid up in the bed together was a 5'2, ugly black n1gga.

A woman's looks is before everything. Even if women think it's about a man's looks, that's secondary at best.

Think about women who have every choice in the world, do they get the most beautiful man or the coolest.

When a man is dedicated to perfecting his physique, his biggest fans are men who are dedicated to perfecting their physique.

Mouthpiece gets the ladies.

Physique gets you attention, it makes it easier to open the conversation. But without the mouthpiece, it goes nowhere. But with the mouthpiece, you can open a conversation anywhere and close the deal.

Put another way, a lot of swole n1ggas go home alone because they don't know how to talk to women.

But like anything, it's better to have both.

You make valid points...
but the game is deeper than that.
See a swole nikka can fu#k any bi#ch but he can't keep her.
A nikka like you will say well I don't wanna keep these hoes... Im fu#king them.
Thats cause u a jit, a child, a shorty.
Mouthpiece aint just for bi#ches.
Mouthpiece is for everything, business, connections, bi#ches, & Money.

So yeah as a man you should be in shape that's no question.
But that's elementary you talking about hitting weights... when you really should be talking about getting $$, power, respect.
I pull up in my whip dolo and you on the street corner hitting pushups Im snatching YOUR bi#ch fam easy. Don't matter if u got an 8 pack with a ten inch d1ck. If that's all you providing you aint hard to snatch either.

So A. first you hit the weights, then you get the money, then you get your credit score high.
Now.... and only now are you in the vicinity of being that nikka.
You talking about working out like you in highschool or something son.
When you see nikkas pulling h0es that don't workout it's because they bank account swole they hit the mayvinci code that bi#ches can be purchased they got llc's these h0es be tax write offs business expenses, real talk.
Lastly.... & any nikka can get they bi#ch snatched but only a true player don't give a fu#k these h0es replaceable. Period.

Have a nice workout in the gym today niglet but after you hit your supersets I hope & know you will come up with a plan to get and keep getting money... cauae you a BX nikka & that should be the goal.

Mouthpiece no question cuz it works by itself. Physique still need mouthpiece.

chicks care more about if you are funny and have brains than they care about your looks.
its just a bonus.

but having both on point is how you reach optimal potential

I grew up in a neighborhood with a lot of Mexicans. Watching how Mexican women move will change your whole outlook. It'll be the most conventionally unattractive n1gga in the world walking around with the baddest bi#ch you ever seen in your life. It's a trip when you see a n1gga who look like a hobbit with two Jailyne Ojedas fighting over him. It's times I was like "damn maybe I should drink more and get me a beer gut, the h0es seem to like it". In my experience, women be more attracted to masculinity and your overall vibe than anything else.

money>>both

but if you're just trying to bag a bi#ch to fu#k, a good physique will take you further

First things first, this thread was created and posted in the fitness section to motivate men to get back in the gym. Thread question was hypothetical

With that said.....

The BGOL.us OG still got all old, flabby n sick cats in y'all feelings 11 years later with his post that still rings true today.

Nobody gives a fu#k about that random gremlin that you know of that pulled a bi#ch from running his god damn mouth all day. Now you cats want act like the exception is the rule. fu#k outta here with that dumb sh1t.

just like the OG said, y'all running your tired as gums, texting, snapchatting a bi#ch all day, cashapping her, giving her free food, rides,drinks, drugs just hoping to get a whiff of pu$$y.

I'm ignoring a bi#ch and she's throwing herself at me with my "lame" a$s personality.

[see photo]

[see photo]

[see photo]

[see photo]

[see photo]

Then it gets worse as y'all try to cope talking about a "a physique doesn't keep them tho" if y'all really was getting bi#ches y'all would know you could be the most fit cat, the smoothest talking cat, the richest cat in the whole God damn world, IT'S NOT YOUR pu$$y, IT'S JUST YOUR TURN.

Cats who get bi#ches aren't ever worried about losing a bi#ch. You lose one, you gain two new ones. That's how it goes.

Anyway get in shape, not for bi#ches but for yourself. Your body, kids, future kids will thank you for that. The extra attention from bi#ches is the cherry on top.

Guys tend to forget that women get turned on just like we do. The same way we confide in each other and talk about how this girl got a nice shape, best believe girls are discussing amongst themselves whether or not YOU would be a good fu#k. The same way some girls turn heads when they walk by, best believe there are guys that get smiles and looks. If you like a$s and t1tties what do you think women like? Don't let that money and status sh1t fool you

Pretty privilege goes both ways.

A woman can take ONE look at you and instinctively know whether or not you can fu#k the dog sh1t outta her. Just the mere thought of it makes them wet.

Being in shape and carrying yourself with confidence goes a long way. You would be surprised at how many women would flirt and throw pu$$y at you — even the ones with a ring. Being overweight or too skinny is a automatic red flag. If you're a guy that walks into a room and you're slouching like you're trying to make yourself smaller, they pick up on little things like that.

EDIT: With that being said, you still need to know how to hold a conversation with women.

you said fit.

think fat-to-fit contests or biggest loser.

you can be skinny or thin and be fit.

I said in shape.

don't take my word google and see there is a difference between those to phrases.

the level of self-discipline and work ethic it takes to get into great shape can be applied to every facet of your life. on you to do the work that you know you can do because you did it to your body.

and sure you can be all those things you said and in great shape, but not likely in my experience you have the tools to change things you want to change about yourself and are likely to do so.

[see photo]

you said fit.

think fat-to-fit contests or biggest loser.

you can be skinny or thin and be fit.

I said in shape.

don't take my word google and see there is a difference between those to phrases.

the level of self-discipline and work ethic it takes to get into great shape can be applied to every facet of your life. on you to do the work that you know you can do because you did it to your body.

and sure you can be all those things you said and in great shape, but not likely in my experience you have the tools to change things you want to change about yourself and are likely to do so.

[see photo]

First things first, this thread was created and posted in the fitness section to motivate men to get back in the gym. Thread question was hypothetical

With that said.....

The BGOL.us OG still got all old, flabby n sick cats in y'all feelings 11 years later with his post that still rings true today.

Nobody gives a fu#k about that random gremlin that you know of that pulled a bi#ch from running his god damn mouth all day. Now you cats want act like the exception is the rule. fu#k outta here with that dumb sh1t.

just like the OG said, y'all running your tired as gums, texting, snapchatting a bi#ch all day, cashapping her, giving her free food, rides,drinks, drugs just hoping to get a whiff of pu$$y.

I'm ignoring a bi#ch and she's throwing herself at me with my "lame" a$s personality.

[see photo]

[see photo]

[see photo]

[see photo]

[see photo]

Then it gets worse as y'all try to cope talking about a "a physique doesn't keep them tho" if y'all really was getting bi#ches y'all would know you could be the most fit cat, the smoothest talking cat, the richest cat in the whole God damn world, IT'S NOT YOUR pu$$y, IT'S JUST YOUR TURN.

Cats who get bi#ches aren't ever worried about losing a bi#ch. You lose one, you gain two new ones. That's how it goes.

Anyway get in shape, not for bi#ches but for yourself. Your body, kids, future kids will thank you for that. The extra attention from bi#ches is the cherry on top.

Mouthpiece is always better than physique.


Being in great shape makes you unstoppable if you're already groomed everywhere else.


It's harder to work on the mouthpiece than the physique though.

You aren’t considering that your logic goes both ways. The baddest bi#ch will get kicked to the curb quick if she has rocks in her head. Same goes for dumb n1ggas witg six packs.

every single facet of your life is better when you are in shape.

When you Broke...Physique for sure, those Broke Gym Trainers stay smashing Women, beautiful women too

Mouthpiece/Gift Of Gab still allows you to pull Women even when you Broke and not in the best shape physically

Once you get your money right...neither matters