I would think most black guys have experienced this if you grew up in an urban culture.
Grow up having bi#ches try to play you, then you have doubts about yourself. Then all it takes is some Spanish and other black women to think you’re cute then you get some confidence and some new found super powers to come back home with.
I remember in middle school two girls try to play me. (Both black) One roasted me for my sneakers being dirty in front of the whole cla$s in a cla$s skit. The other one (in high school) told me I’m a lil boy, cause I didn’t have a BB Simon belt.
I’m now expecting to be a pops with my soon to be wife (who is black).
I say all this sh1t to say sometimes we can be our worst enemy but always understand not everyone the same. Most of the birds you grow up with will be chicken heads