I see nothing wrong w/ being a step pops.

Every kid coming up deserves a positive male figure in their life.

However I don't think it's positive to throw the child's father under the bus.

It's corny.

Depending on what type of relationship she got with the kid's pops, he'll always be in the picture and unless you end up becoming another baby father to add to her roster, you can always be replaced.

n*ggas so caught up in the matrix they think a two parent households is a bad thing

It takes a lot to raise someone else's child. There's a huge difference between fu*king a woman with kids and helping to raise her child/children.

At the end of the day it's doing what's best for that child, depending on their age you don't know how big of an impact you'll have on that kids future.

After hurricane sandy I lost pretty much all my sh*t and my ex from HS let me move in with her. She had a 4 hear old. I ended up staying around for about two years to get myself back on my feet. Although we never got back into an offical relationship I basically became like a step dad to her son. I eventually left and he moved with his pops out of state but to this day all these years later we're still cool. I got my own kids now but he still reaches out for advice and sh*t. He's in HS now, sh*t crazy

Ghostface k*lla said n*ggas so caught up in the matrix they think a two parent households is a bad thing

Men taking on responsibility is a bad thing to some cats.

I don’t date women with kids but OP is a f*g**t for this.

He’s a Russian troll that wants to see black people fu*ked up

Ain't none of these hos worthy of taking care of they child. Never settle for less. It plenty of college educated women with no kids out here.

No man who had a positive male figure -biological dad or someone else - in their life growing up would even entertain these types of thoughts. I could go way more into detail, but it's just not worth it.

If cats who think like op are older than 15 and grew up with a father in their household, that man failed them tremendously. To be honest though, seems like the behavior of scorned sons of single mothers. It just doesn't make sense.

Picture is corny but OPs just a d*ckhead.

I can’t fault a stepfather it depends on the situation. They’re situations when they are simps but they’re situations like my stepdad he just was a solid dude. He couldn’t have kids so he treated me as his own. n*ggas k*lled him and it hurt worst then my real father not seeing me.

Thats not a simp smh

All that simp sh*t is white supremacist talk. Most children don’t stand a chance without two parents. Don’t talk sh*t about men who step up to be in a child’s life.

If the kid treats you with respect and the mother doesn’t disrespect your authority.

I don’t the problem.

Someone has to do it, most ain't honarable like John Snow

Ghostface k*lla said n*ggas so caught up in the matrix they think a two parent households is a bad thing

People retarded on here mane

"A woman cannot raise a child on her own, she is too unstable"

"Man i can tell you came from a single parent household"

"Lol this dude raising someone's elses kid. What a betacucksimp. fu*k them kids"

If you don't want to be a step father that's fine but if you do decide to get with a female with kids and take it to that level, what the fu*k do you expect. The kids not going nowhere so at least be a stand up n*gga and it doesn't have be financially.

P.S. I don't date women with kids

I was still fu*king my son mom every now and then

Blinx 182 said All that simp sh*t is white supremacist talk. Most children don’t stand a chance without two parents. Don’t talk sh*t about men who step up to be in a child’s life.

This is facts. I haven’t heard black people use the word simp in everyday convo since the 2000’s. These weirdo incels hijacked it, twisted the meaning and want you think black men and women are enemies

Da fuk?

You go out and try to find a woman without kids. I'll wait. It gets especially harder as you get older.

LordGimmeASign said I see nothing wrong w/ being a step pops. Every kid coming up deserves a positive male figure in their life. However I don't think it's positive to throw the child's father under the bus. It's corny. Depending on what type of relationship she got with the kid's pops, he'll always be in the picture and unless you end up becoming another baby father to add to her roster, you can always be replaced.

You cool having no rights and all responsibility?

You cool spending money to advance another man’s legacy

Wait until they’re grown

Ghostface k*lla said n*ggas so caught up in the matrix they think a two parent households is a bad thing

No raising kids you have no rights to is bad

I work to hard to provide for another man’s kids that he made

Chedda said Da fuk? You go out and try to find a woman without kids. I'll wait. It gets especially harder as you get older.

Exactly, I'm 32 and most females my age have kids.

believeallwomen said Wait until they’re grown

sh*t wait until they hit 13

HH080 said People retarded on here mane "A woman cannot raise a child on her own, she is too unstable" "Man i can tell you came from a single parent household" "Lol this dude raising someone's elses kid. What a betacucksimp. fu*k them kids"

Because the woman should be with the man she had the kids.

I’m not sure how you can see a woman with kids and thinks: I’ll make her a wife when many women don’t have kids.


Just imagine a constant reminder that another man was pumping her full of love juice

Die in Houston said If the kid treats you with respect and the mother doesn’t disrespect your authority. I don’t the problem.

Raise your kids

Don’t waste your $ on another man’s kids. Because when you get divorced you have no rights