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We created a workforce that FORCES women to work instead of having the option to be wives, and stay at home mothers. System is fu*ked.

An emotional video, showing one mom's reaction to returning to work just 12 days after giving birth prematurely, has sparked waves of empathy and support on social media.

The mom, known on TikTok as @edensmomma10_12, first shared the clip, found here, in early December. Since then, it's been viewed 2.8 million times, amassing over 543,000 likes and 20,000 comments.

The video centers on @edensmomma10_12's difficult situation, stemming from her lack of sufficient paid parental leave—especially considering that her baby was born extremely premature.

According to The Washington Post, the U.S. is the only wealthy nation in the world to not provide federally guaranteed paid parental leave. At the national level, employers are only required to provide six weeks of unpaid leave—and not all workers qualify.

The video shows @edensmomma10_12 filling out paperwork, presumably at her workplace, while visibly sobbing. She uses on-screen captions to explain the upsetting circumstances.

"POV, You have to return to work 12 days after having a premature baby at 27 weeks, so that when she is eventually discharged from the NICU you can spend what little maternity leave you have with her," she wrote.

"You try to pump at work every three hours, but they're understaffed," she continued. "Your milk supply is [diminishing] at [eight] weeks postpartum. Will you even have milk available when she gets home?"

"What do other NICU parents do?" she wondered. "How can anyone afford to stay home during a NICU stay? How can anyone handle the guilt when you have to work and can't be with your baby?"

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And they wonder why countries are hitting record low births. We are fu*king up motherhood with forcing them to generate capital for the rich.

Destoroyah said Not to mention child support, where the courts usually side with the mother even if she is the reason for the break up. Also, has anyone really stopped and looked at the state of the world lately? [spoiler - click to view] These hoes are not worth the headache.

These are all effects of western civilization which is ran by

she'll be iight

This idiot thinks birthdates are lower cause women work jobs? Says all this while posting a fu*king TikTok.

Mario Chalmers said This idiot thinks birthdates are lower cause women work jobs? Says all this while posting a fu*king TikTok.

he makes a lot of these generalizations off of TikTok videos

its his new BX shtick

child rearing? fu*kin homo

Love My Daughter. But Hate When People Fake Cry & Don't No Tears Be Comin Out. Makes Me Wish Something Really Happens To Them.

Andrefrbk said view image We created a workforce that FORCES women to work instead of having the option to be wives, and stay at home mothers. System is fu*ked. view image And they wonder why countries are hitting record low births. We are fu*king up motherhood with forcing them to generate capital for the rich.

We ain't force that sh*t. These women knew what they signed up for. Some even lost their domestic abilities and can't even iron a shirt. They traded all the sh*t for equality. They wanted same stress men face.

Planet is overpopulated anyways.

When mothafu*kas record themselves crying that sh*t is hilarious to me
Like what you trying to accomplish here bi*ch? You want mothafu*kas to pity you? You just have to make sure people see you crying and feel bad for you huh?
Attention whoring at its absolute finest

Yo the price of formula and diapers enough to break someone.

Imagine wanting kids in 2022.

Yosado said Love My Daughter. But Hate When People Fake Cry & Don't No Tears Be Comin Out. Makes Me Wish Something Really Happens To Them.

What does loving your daughter have to do with people fake crying? Lol weird correlation

LuxG2 said Generalizations are dumb, what proof do you have to back up this claim of yours besides a tic tok because Black people per the census had more baby’s from 2010-2020 Latinos per the census had more baby’s from 2010-2020 Asians in America per the census had more kids from 2010-2020 The only group that went down in population was white people per the census So you are a pessimist Person & trying to fit the world in your negative view

He may be

Destoroyah said Not to mention child support, where the courts usually side with the mother even if she is the reason for the break up. Also, has anyone really stopped and looked at the state of the world lately? [spoiler - click to view] These hoes are not worth the headache.

> Not to mention child support, where the courts usually side with the mother even if she is the reason for the break up.

?????????

Men in our community are so retarded.

> side with the mother
> even if she is the reason for the break up

> child support

Child support is about the child. Its not about two adults who can't get their sh*t together. WTF does paying child support have to do with the reason for the break up? I could understand if you were talking about custody but in no part of that comment did you mention it (because of course you don't give a sh*t about that and would never f*ght for it).



The ignorance...

Legit Jones said These are all effects of western civilization which is ran by

Ah.... yes. Its the

s

that are the problem in this.

Despite the fact that we can't even do something as simple as keep fathers in our homes and dedicated to one woman we totally would have handled the rest of western civilization better than the

s


FFS not everything is like that. Just stfu.

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Speak for yourself angry white lady

The word accountability just doesn’t mean anything to some people. You knew what this was, you knew what kind of job you had. You knew the risks of what kind of kid you could give birth to.

Don’t, with the tears. I’m sorry about the baby.

But you, made a choice.

Pull up the drawers, big girl time. The world isn’t unfair, it’s fu*ked up.

fu*ked up things happen for no good fu*ked up reason because humanity is fu*ked up.

You thought, the world should deal with my choice.
NOPE.

You do.

I’m living proof

My 1.5 daughter made me not want more kids

Not because of her, but due to the expense and lack of support. This sh*t is hard and I doubt I am doing it again.

To my bx fathers, y’all hold it down. Forreal, that’s something I’m not even remotely ready for and I’m 30

This bi*ch an icu nurse right? She only work 3 days a week and make over 100k

SoReal said We ain't force that sh*t. These women knew what they signed up for. Some even lost their domestic abilities and can't even iron a shirt. They traded all the sh*t for equality. They wanted same stress men face.

Right. Feminist have led a great deal of women down a path that leads to nothing but loneliness and a wall full of degrees.



You can yell EQUALITY from the rooftops and cry when you have it. As men we don't have and have never had the luxury to just cry and say we've been forced to do something.

We have to keep it moving because someone is dependent on us to provide something. And we understand that nobody really gives a damn about how we feel most of the time. As a whole anyway.

women WANTED to work they WANTED the same power men have

They made their bed

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Ladies and gentlemen please have a solid, thought out plan when it comes to bringing a life into this world. If you have to save up for a couple of years to make sure that the baby's needs are good no matter what happens then do it.