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 4 weeks ago '18        #1
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yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6
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Am i a bad guy for this
 

 
I have a girlfriend but I've been seeing this girl that i've known before her behind her back. Usually, when i saw this girl behind my gfs back i didn't really care but as my relationship ages, i start to feel more guilty about cheating. Then when it came to the sides it becomes increasingly obvious she wanted a relationship. i can't give you a relationship if i'm already in one. Plus she wasn't anywhere near as facial attractive as my girl, my girl pretty af. Either way, i called this girl to come to see me after I didn't talk to her for a month (was traveling), she gets mad a little saying "you don't talk to me for a month and suddenly out the blue, you video call me and you only did it so I could come over and we can have s*x", she complains that I'm not "consistent" with enough and that the month she hasn't been talking to me, she's been building a connection with another guy.

At this point i didn't even like this girl anymore, I was fully committed to my girl but my ego kicked in, knowing i could take her from a potential man. So for 3 days, i was consistent with her, texted, talked on the phone and she finally agrees to come chill, my girl was busy modeling, so I was free.

She comes over today, everything is cool for the first 1 hour but as we start getting freakier my mind just can't stop thinking about my girlfriend, it just kept fu*king with me, my erection would go from hard to soft (pause). As I was with this girl I noticed she kept on getting a call from a n*gga and declining it, then i just broached the topic of the guy that's pursuing her and if she likes him, she should pursue him and forget about this. She got mad and asked me why, she'll do what she wants to do, she doesn't need to pursue anyone she doesn't want to. Then at this point, i just simply told her, me and her could never be an item, she gets mad, tells me i should have told her all this before, even though i did on phone a couple of days.

I told her again me and her will never be boyfriend and girlfriend and she should explore this new guy, at this point, she just started holding in tears, called an uber, told me not to touch her, and left. She was so upset, voice cracking and everything. This sh*t literally just happened, i feel bad af but i felt it was the right thing to do, i tried the side chick thing, and wasn't for me, i ended up feeling too guilt.

Was what i did messed up? I think it was better to tell her than to just lead her on and i was too shook to tell her i have a girl because if she found out, idk what she would have done. Should i message her apologizing or just leave it like this?
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 4 weeks ago '18        #2
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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Tell me i did the right thing, seeing her that upset has me all the way fu*ked up rn, she even told me her friends were mad at her for coming to meet me and she still did it. Bet she feels like a fool rn, i know we hard on thots but that doesn't mean we need to make em cry

 4 weeks ago '17        #3
justin747  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x1
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At this point i didn't even like this girl anymore, I was fully committed to my girl but my ego kicked in, knowing i could take her from a potential man


Opportunity to walk away from all the drama clean, and didn't take it.
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 4 weeks ago '18        #4
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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 justin747 said


Opportunity to walk away from all the drama clean, and didn't take it.
I know i don't know what was wrong with me, i just wanted to see if i could make her do what i wanted, as fu*ked up as that may sound.


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 4 weeks ago '20        #5
Mombaba  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x35
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 justin747 said


Opportunity to walk away from all the drama clean, and didn't take it.
Facts these nicccas ain’t got no damn discipline or self control smh


 4 weeks ago '18        #6
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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Well sh*ts over now, i purposely sabotaged it

 4 weeks ago '16        #7
BobbiHeadRagTop  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x4
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Well...

I do know one thing tho....
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 4 weeks ago '18        #8
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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 BobbiHeadRagTop said
Well...

I do know one thing tho....
bi*ches they come, they go, Saturday through Sunday, Monday, Monday through Sunday, yo
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 4 weeks ago '19        #9
Anomic  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x5
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Inb4 self righteous lying a*s BX comes in to slam buddy
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 4 weeks ago '04        #10
Young Sones  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x2
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I mean, you're a fuccboi but whatever... who isn't.

I wouldn't let it eat me alive. Just dead sh*t with shorty and keep it dead.

As for your girl, are you ready for that karma?
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 4 weeks ago '16        #11
BobbiHeadRagTop  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x4
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 yunhsus said
bi*ches they come, they go, Saturday through Sunday, Monday, Monday through Sunday, yo
Maybe I’ll love you one day, maybe we’ll someday grow. Till then just sit your drunk a*s on this fu*kin runway ho
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 4 weeks ago '20        #12
Gangasta Boo 
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Walk away, delete all messages, picture's, vids, block and delete her from all social media etc.

Focus on your relationship with your girl
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 4 weeks ago '18        #13
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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 Young Sones said
I mean, you're a fuccboi but whatever... who isn't.

I wouldn't let it eat me alive. Just dead sh*t with shorty and keep it dead.

As for your girl, are you ready for that karma?
What karama? She'll never cheat on me
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 4 weeks ago '18        #14
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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 Anomic said
Inb4 self righteous lying a*s BX comes in to slam buddy
surprised they aren't here yet

 4 weeks ago '18        #15
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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 Gangasta Boo said
Walk away, delete all messages, picture's, vids, block and delete her from all social media etc.

Focus on your relationship with your girl
about to do this tbh, i'm just gonna leave it dead
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 4 weeks ago '19        #16
slicktheruler  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x1
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 yunhsus said
What karama? She'll never cheat on me
You won't even see it coming. It's called Karma my guy.
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 4 weeks ago '18        #17
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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it's never gonna happen, my girl loves me
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 4 weeks ago '06        #18
mrep3 
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Side chick gonna give you the clap then you gonna have to explain it to your girlfriend
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 4 weeks ago '15        #19
Suave Mente  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x1
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You fu*ked up by pulling her feelings in it to suit your admitted ego. You couldn't just ride out with the memories of yalls tryst. You wanted the glory of having her heart knowing you would only let it die. You sir are fu*ked up.

Not on a soap box talking down to you. I've been there and done the same thing for the same reason. The thing is you get no pity from me no shoulder to cry on. Because who does that young lady have? Noone. You've ruined her new relationship whether you see it or not. And you stripped yourself from her. You chose violence. And the blood from that don't wash away.
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 4 weeks ago '18        #20
yunhsus  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6 OP
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 mrep3 said
Side chick gonna give you the clap then you gonna have to explain it to your girlfriend
Na she’s clean, only been with one guy before me and that was her ex who she’s was with for 3 years.
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 4 weeks ago '18        #21
TheLuminousOne  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6
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You was a man about it salute. I would of hit one mo time before I sent her packing tho....
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 4 weeks ago '04        #22
Young Sones  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x2
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OP gotta be a teenager
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 4 weeks ago '05        #23
240sx 
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Remember dudes fronting with a side chick , don’t get mad when your lady get piped down with bigger faster & stronger ...U better charge it to the game and keep movin...
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 4 weeks ago '13        #24
jrockex 
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pointless thread unless you just wanted to tell everyone your girlfriend is beautiful and you also cheated on her anyway

sounds like you have no respect for her either, you just like the idea that you have her
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 4 weeks ago '19        #25
MarathonOG 
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This thread has ho tendencies written all over it.

Cool story drama queen.

LIKE OMG GUES WHAT I DID?!?!?!

LIKE AM I A BAD PERSON?
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