I wouldn't call the soldier's wife a bi*ch. The cold reality is it's near impossible to love someone who looks like that.
She was expecting a whole different life
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At that age people are getting married for superficial reasons, whether they know it or not.
She thought she was gonna be marrying the handsome war hero, so that everybody would fawn over their relationship (you know how bi*ches be)
Also thought they'd be financially stable based on his benefits.
When none of that panned out, she was over it, but then the media gets involved and pretty much traps her by telling her "how good of a heart" she has for going through with it.
And the expectation is set that if she doesn't she's "shallow". So she does. Waits to be off the radar from the the media, and runs away from the situation as fast as possible basically.