“I’m not gonna have anything negative to say about him,” Saundra says of Carruth. “I thank him for my grandson. I thank him for my grandson. . . . Like I say, you can focus on what you’ve lost or what you have left. So I didn’t lose. I have my grandson. I have my daughter with me in my heart, always.”
what a strong and resolved woman...if only everyone could have over minor situations the peace she has over this...man.
In comes devils advocate....
The fact that... men have no control over the choice to keep the child or not creates situations like these. unfortunately this is not the 1st or last story like this. All of these situations stem from the fact that the Men don't want children and the independent hard working woman ( being the victim here of course) is headed to the courthouse to file for child support if he does n't agree to be apart of this childs life.
The prob here is....
in this america of equality.
Men are expected to be responsible for a decision they have no control over.
Imagine if I drove you to work for a month straight.
Then you said "wow this is a nice car"
Next month you find out that your name is now on the lease and you have to help me pay for it.
how would you feel?
the choice is yours first and foremost where you put your d!ck and whether or not you choose to wear protection. please get this bullsh*t ALL THE WAY THE fu*k OUT OF HERE.