The Fifth KD said:
Now before it was revealed that this chick was a attention wh0ore round the 'net....
I really dont see what would have been so bad about chilling with her, taking her out and/or whatever in addition to smashing.
I mean sh*t as a man, a break from the monotony of chilling with your n*ggas, working, playing video games and/or whatever is great, and typically the company of a young lady is the best way to break that monotony.
And the thing is, doing all of those things isn't simping or committing or whatever. Enjoying her company and ensuring she has a good time (but not ignoring your priorities of course) is grown man sh*t. And if you have a bad time or you desire to drop the chick from the roster and never holla at her again, well okay. That's fine too.
But all of that dogging out, treating them like scum of the earth is some women hater/patriarchal sh*t....and this is coming from someone who regularly says bi*ches ain't sh*t/are fu*king retarded.
Me? I desire grown, mature relationships and if your someone of Javale McGee's status, then you can EASILY afford to take that risk and give someone the benefit of the doubt by treating them with some respectability; after all there's a million other chicks willing to take her spot.
I totally feel you but my thing is, it wasnt like a regular dude she was dealing with, she was dealing with him for five months of talking, no dates during that time, and she flies out to meet him and within a few hours had s3x with him? If that was a regular dude, it would have been a totally different story. Girls like that have gotten to a point where they believe their body/b00ty/pretty face is going to have them come up on a baller,figured he was feeling her from all the talking, probably thought she had a sucker reeled in, and figured that the pus*y was going to simp him. I'm not saying dude was foul, but he knew what was up with old girl, probably just from talking to her all that time he peeped what she was about. If she came down there to see him, not fu*ked, then I would say he down bad but she came there knowing full well he wasn't just looking to "chill" especially since they had never been on a date before. The most I would have did me personally, once I saw I could fu*k within a short period of her being there, I would have kept it g with her, chilled a little bit, maybe out to eat and a movie the next day, and send her home on the next flight, that's it.