If some of the brothers don't take care of their kids, and the woman has moved on in her life. Then, she needs to let her child move on. In other words, your husband, or whoever he may be should be their father. The kids are the ultimate victim.
I can dig that but alot times its not that black and white its not always as simple as the father doesn't want to be there, their are so many sista's out there that use the child as a weapon because.....
- Bruh doesn't want to be with her
anymore (for whatever reason) so she tries to keep him out of said child's life or replace him with another male.
- Son may not be able to properly
provide for the child financially so the mother cuts him out of the picture though he may still want to be in the child's life.
- The couple breaks up /divorces, he moves on finds someone else and maybe has another child she doesn't she then uses the child to hurt him out of her jealousy.
^^^^ its alot of black men going through those 3.