see guys don't know. you have to do a pre-emptive strike. once a month (if you're Kobe you have the money) put a PI on your chick. Just to see if she's suspicious or is talking about what you MIGHT be doing.
Don't think you're so slick you can get away with it. Get the best in the bizz to scope out your chick. That way if she hires a PI you already know.
I just saw MI4. if you saw it then you know that Tom knew they had PIs watching him, that's how you gotta be. On your Tom Cruise sh*t. More hoes in 2012. Step the game up cuz the game done changed.