Kobe uses a gay slur

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 7 years ago '08        #1
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Kobe uses a gay slur
 

 

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During Tuesday night’s game between the San Antonio Spurs and the Los Angeles Lakers, Kobe Bryant was hit with a technical foul. When he went to the bench, TNT’s cameras caught him clearly calling referee Bennie Adams a “f******g [gay slur].” Thanks to the skills of @Jose3030 and the power of twitter, the video quickly went viral.

Let’s be clear about something: Kobe Bryant has been a controversial figure, both on and off the court. This post is not about Kobe Bryant. I don’t know Kobe Bryant personally, but in all my professional dealings with him he has come across as intelligent, funny, and well-adjusted. I have nothing but the utmost respect for him as both a basketball player and a person. The issue here is not Kobe; the issue is the word he used.

I’m sure that if you asked Kobe, he would tell you that he wasn’t expressing any homophobic feelings when he called the referee what he called him. I don’t know whether he actually was or not, but in any case I’m more than willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. The gay slur Kobe used is often used as a general insult — Kobe lost his temper, and in a fit of rage he called Adams the worst thing he could think of. I don’t think Kobe’s unfortunate choice of words revealed that he has a deep-seeded hatred of gay people. I do think they revealed that athletes are still comfortable tossing around a word that, like a few other very hurtful and powerful words, should not be tossed around.

The word Kobe used can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. Intelligent, funny people like Louis C.K., Trey Parker, Matt Stone, and Joe Rogan have all made cases that when they use the word, they’re not saying that they have a problem with homos3xuality or homos3xual behavior; they just use it to denote behavior they find unacceptable. The problem with that logic is that while we can control what we say, we can’t always control what people hear, and it’s unreasonable to expect everyone to separate our words from our intentions, especially hurtful words. In my younger years, I had the foolish belief that proper contexts to use that word somehow existed. I no longer hold that belief in any way, shape or form. The fact is that for a lot of people, homos3xual behavior and unacceptable behavior are synonymous. Until that changes, I believe that there is no appropriate context for that word.

In a Gallup poll conducted last May, only 52% of Americans said that they found homos3xuality “morally acceptable.” Homos3xuals still do not have the right to marriage in most of the country. Research conducted one week ago shows that gay and lesbian teens are twice as likely to experience symptoms of depression as their heteros3xual counterparts, and three times more likely to report a history of suicidality. According to the It Gets Better Project, 9 out of 10 LGBT students have experienced harassment at school.

The belief that we are a post-homophobia society is foolish and arrogant. Some people will say that making a “big deal” out of incidents like this reveals that the real problem with our society is that it has become to “politically correct.” Tell that to the teens who have to endure physical and verbal abuse at school because of their s3xual orientation, or the families of the teens who couldn’t take the abuse anymore. Maybe the day when it’s okay to use the word that Kobe used and have everybody know that you have no problem with homos3xuals or homos3xual behavior at all will come someday. I don’t think it will, and I know that that day is not today.

Does the word that Kobe used get used by professional athletes almost every day, in every locker room, without any cameras or tape recorders catching it? Absolutely. In fact, during a playoff game a few seasons ago, Kevin Garnett was actually caught screaming the exact same thing that Kobe screamed. Does that mean that we should say “well, boys will be boys” when someone gets caught on tape like Kobe did? I don’t think so. I’m not calling for Bryant’s head: I believe in freedom of speech, and don’t think he should receive an additional fine or suspension for his choice of words.

What I would like is for some good to come out of this being caught on tape. It’s easy to point the finger when somebody like Tim Hardaway says something blatantly homophobic and pin all the issues with homos3xuality and professional sports on isolated cases like him. The truth is that the problems run much deeper, and many of them are more rooted in ignorance than hatred.

Simple math tells us that it would be a miracle if no active MLB, NBA, or NFL player is a homos3xual, but no player current athlete has come out, and I would wager that most professional athletes don’t think they have any gay teammates. It’s in environments like that where casual homos3xuality can seem harmless. Ask yourself this: if Joe Smith, who was sitting next to Kobe, or Bennie Adams, the referee, was gay and Kobe knew that, do you think he still have used that word? If the answer is no, why should we expect any homos3xual who was within earshot or watching the game on TV to not have an issue with Kobe’s choice of words? Is it reasonable to ask sports fans to check their feelings about words like the ones Kobe used at the door, words that may have been directed at them, with hate, in their own lives?

This is a beautiful game, and people of all races, religions, and s3xual orientations should feel comfortable playing it, watching it, and enjoying it. When the most respected player in the league by players, coaches, and media members alike gets caught uncorking a gay slur and nobody has a problem with it, it can give the impression that the NBA doesn’t care about creating a welcoming environment for all of its fans. Kobe has an opportunity to clear up his feelings about homos3xuals and whether or not he believes the word he used is or is not acceptable language. I hope he takes advantage of it, and that the NBA becomes just a bit more welcoming than it would have been otherwise.



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 7 years ago '04        #2
ShaDoW1 7 heat pts
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'BILLY!!! fu*kin f*ggot' lmao
 7 years ago '09        #3
ReggieA 196 heat pts196
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LOL I just watched the video of this off twitter, I know these refs have heard worse from other players, not a really big deal.
 7 years ago '10        #4
Nautilus O 18 heat pts18
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Real Talk and this is free from the dislike I have for Kobe Bryant.........

This n*gga gonna have to do a commercial with Gaga in order to clean this up and if Skip Bayless gives him a pass on this I will never take anything he says serious again

With that said and this is not free from the dislike I have for Kobe

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You aint got much room to talk homie
 7 years ago '08        #5
Andre3stacks 20 heat pts20
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cant be serious. They need to mic up KG on the low and hear the sh*t he says constantly.
 7 years ago '04        #6
MochaWhitey 10 heat pts10
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He'll fit in here just fine
 7 years ago '07        #7
st21 1375 heat pts1375
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biggest as*hole and biggest drama queen in sports. kobe stays whining and throwing temper tantrums.
 04-13-2011, 09:03 AM         #8
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Fagget isnt a gay slur. Its just an insult that can be aimed at anyone
 7 years ago '04        #9
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This is some ol' bullsh!t...That's the problem w/ all these cameras and 24/7 sports coverage we live with everybody gonna find something about somebody to bi*ch at. Steve Kerr had it right - Kobe was heated and after he punched the chair it was time to take the camera off him and focus back on the game...If he has to drop an apology for this that's some really f.aggot sh!t
 7 years ago '10        #10
Nautilus O 18 heat pts18
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 Tempus # 1 said:
Fagget isnt a gay slur. Its just an insult that can be aimed at anyone


True, but the media doesn't agree
 7 years ago '07        #11
JamcnPrettyboy 98 heat pts98
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whats said on the court needs to stay on the court. these dudes curse and talk sh*t about each other and to the refs all the time.

kobe bryant is not supposed to watch his mouth when getting frustrated while playing the game.
 7 years ago '07        #12
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 Nautilus O said:
Real Talk and this is free from the dislike I have for Kobe Bryant.........

This n*gga gonna have to do a commercial with Gaga in order to clean this up and if Skip Bayless gives him a pass on this I will never take anything he says serious again

With that said and this is not free from the dislike I have for Kobe

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You aint got much room to talk homie

Were u offended?
 7 years ago '05        #13
Dun Language 4064 heat pts4064
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Nice Kobe. Millions of people just seen you act like a as*hole
 7 years ago '04        #14
Tha-Problem 
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C'mon son...sh*ts not that serious...

He punched the sh*t outta J smith tho lmao
 7 years ago '04        #15
DERRTY CHYBO 12 heat pts12
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can't wait for this to get blown out of proportion.
 7 years ago '04        #16
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Gay people need to get over it, understand that most of the time somebody is called a f*ggot it has nothing to do with gay people the word has transformed into more of a synonym for as*hole, jerk, punk,ect .
 7 years ago '06        #17
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Every July ref Monty McCutchen hoops with us at the Y. Last summer we were chillin' on the bench catching up with one another & I asked him about a game early in the season in Denver when he T'd up Kenyon Martin & then threw him out of the game a few minutes later (A fan then threw something onto the court), he laughed & said it was because Martin kept calling him a 'fu*king f*ggot'. lol
 7 years ago '04        #18
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 P. Dedos said:


saw this live, best moment in NBA history
 7 years ago '04        #19
Silentmurdah33 1 heat pts
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ill give him props for this
 7 years ago '04        #20
MochaWhitey 10 heat pts10
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He clearly called him a maggot
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