No I understand completely the ramafication a.ssociated with the situation can be very damaging but she is technically a child but at 16 when does personal accountablity come into play. She not only didnt report the abuse, which she had evidence of, she gave a copy of the actg ot her boyfriend. If she was feeling any type of shame she would have hidden the proof instead of flaunting it. Lets be real
You're only a.ssuming that she gave the DVD to her boyfriend in order to flaunt it. The story doesn't say that. It could have easily been a cry for help, or just a mistake.
And like I said, psychologically, there are plenty of explanations for why victims of s3xual abuse often don't report it, especially when the abuser is a family member. To just jump to the idea that a 16 year old isn't reporting her mother and her mother's boyfriend making s3x tapes of her because she liked it is frankly, just disgusting. Victims of abuse can be any age, though it should be pointed out that this likely all began before the girl was 16. You don't just jump right into this kind of thing, and the idea that this is just some fun thing they all thought up is crazy. That's why I say you just don't seem to get it, because if you study the psychology at all, you wouldn't be making these a.ssumptions about the victim's actions.