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 05-23-2008, 11:09 AM         #1
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May 23 - 7 Ways to Tell If You Are Addicted to pr0n
 

 
7 Ways to Tell If You Are Addicted to pr0n


Author’s note: This is not an article on whether or not erotica is morally wrong. It is not an article on whether pr0n use is an addiction (I'll get to those great debates at another time).

I pounced on it the moment it arrived. For months, I had been awaiting the publication of “The pr0n Trap: The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by pr0nography,” eager to hear its take on what has become a national dilemma.

Like it or not, pr0n has become a problem in this country. Forty million Americans visit an Internet pr0n site at least once a month – and it’s hitting many where it hurts.

Not so coincidentally, therapists are reporting an increased number of clients presenting pr0n-related problems. For example, 50 percent of divorce cases in 2002 involved pr0n, according to “The pr0n Trap” authors Wendy and Larry Maltz.

So how does a person know that they’ve fallen into “the pr0n trap”?

When does a fun escape for an individual or couple become a nightmare?

Your father’s Playboy is just that – so yesterday. pr0n is coming at us from all angles, and we’re no longer talking suggestive pin-up girls.

Between unsolicited emails, deceptive Internet links, pop-up windows, chat rooms, videos, games and the more than 400 million internet pages of pr0n for your viewing pleasure, erotica is hard to escape, whether it’s soft- or hard-core.

Even if you thought you’d never be caught in the web of pr0n, the wrong click at the opportune time could have you hooked. Spicing up s3x is just one of many reasons people explore all sorts of erotica.

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Maltz and Maltz outline the following reasons you may decide to innocently get in on the action – ones that may ultimately be a disaster waiting to happen:

— Your relationship, although committed, is s3xless.

— Your understanding of s3x is that pr0n equals pleasure.

— It’s easily accessible.

— You view pr0n as a stress reliever.

— You are having trouble being intimate with another human being.

It may seem harmless at first. Everything may seem under control. You’re just in it for kicks, right? But, as too many people can tell you, pr0n use is a slippery slope if you don’t keep yourself in check.

Here are some major red flags that you may have a problem with pr0nography:

1. You’ve become anti-social.

You are spending more time with pr0nography than you are with the outside world. If you are single (and even if you are putting yourself out there) your preoccupation with pr0n may be hindering your ability to establish long-term, monogamous relationships. If you are involved with someone, you may find yourself bowing out of couple and familial obligations to steal moments with your laptop or DVD player. Bottom line: You only have eyes for pr0n stars and no one else.

2. You’re lying to your partner.

Your once honest relationship is now plagued by secrecy and dishonesty as you try to hide your pr0n habit. About 70 percent of people keep their pr0n use a secret. And many will go to all sorts of extremes in making sure that they are not found out. Even when busted, many will do or say anything to hide the truth.

3. Your partner is no longer attractive.

Unbeknownst to your partner, s/he has competition – and it’s your favorite pr0n star. Obsessed with fantasy characters, you find it hard to get turned on to the real thing, including yourself. That’s right; you’re not even letting yourself off the hook. Casting yourself against fiction, you’re sizing yourself up as unattractive. Either way, you are likely avoiding or completely uninterested in s3x with your lover.

4. Your s3x life with your partner is suffering.

Both your s3xual desire and functioning, including arousal, have taken a nose dive. You and your lover are feeling robbed of romance, passion and emotional closeness. This is because you are not truly present with your partner. Emotionally distant, you are too busy having s3x with pr0n. Ultimately, you are dissatisfied with your actual s3x life, and this is affecting your relationship.

5. Your concept of “real intimacy” has become warped.

When you re-emerge from the fantasy world, you’re finding that your expectations about s3x, s3xual partners and intimacy have become unrealistic. You’re only interested in those who look and act like pr0n stars (which severely limit your dating pool if single). Sadly, you start to think there must be something “wrong” your lover for not putting out like a pr0n star. Furthermore, you’re objectifying others, wondering what he or she would look like unclothed or how they would act during s3x.

6. The habit is causing you distress.

Torn between desire and shame, your use of pr0n is causing you physiological and emotional distress. You may feel like a “s3x pervert,” or suffer from isolation, shame, anger, unrest, depression and irritability. You may be distressed over the fact that using pr0n conflicts with your value system. Overall, your pr0n kink is starting to cause family, work, legal and/or spiritual problems.

7. You are engaging in risky behaviors.

You might be OK with ideas that usually make you think twice, for instance, having unprotected s3x, but now you are engaging in behavior that is out of control. Soliciting a prostitute, looking at child pr0nography or anything involving animals or violence warrants a need for help.

If your pr0n habit is causing you to neglect important life matters, you should seek professional help, especially if it is causing you and your partner distress. A s3x counselor or therapist may be able to help.


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 05-23-2008, 11:45 AM         #2
AK-19  OP
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Here are some more:

You know the name of more then ten pr0nstars

Watching two girls make out is borrrring. Two girls who gag each other with huge dildo's, spit, choke, slap each other silly is now your minimum requirement.


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 10 years ago '06        #3
Maddog345 3 heat pts
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I don't need an article to tell me that i'm addicted to pr0n
 05-23-2008, 11:52 AM         #4
alias 1.0  OP
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 Maddog345 said:
I don't need an article to tell me that i'm addicted to pr0n

 05-23-2008, 11:55 AM         #5
Sam Rothstein  OP
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pr0n helps you out

it helps you stop hooking up with chicks you wouldn't find attractive if you wasn't horny
 10 years ago '06        #6
elmonto 
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aint nothing wrong with some good ol' pr0n every now and then.
 10 years ago '06        #7
Nugen2384 
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 Maddog345 said:
I don't need an article to tell me that i'm addicted to pr0n
 10 years ago '04        #8
haterade2885 1 heat pts
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 Get it Right said:
pr0n helps you out

it helps you stop hooking up with chicks you wouldn't find attractive if you wasn't horny
hahahahaha at least someone else understands
 10 years ago '07        #9
boar 
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loool wat da fu*k... i dont give a fu*k all males r pr0n addicts, single or married
 05-23-2008, 12:33 PM         #10
darealbigmeat  OP
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 elmonto said:
aint nothing wrong with some good ol' pr0n every now and then.
:iagree:
 05-23-2008, 12:42 PM         #11
2woLJD  OP
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sh*t that one girl of socalcoeds.com

i forgot her name but she look mexican

i found a password for that site and right click saved as all her pics and videos lolzz
 10 years ago '04        #12
jspek 
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cool i'm not an addict hahahahahahaha.
 10 years ago '04        #13
Thepeoplerunnin 
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Isnt that what separates humans from animals...........
 10 years ago '07        #14
stogz 18 heat pts18
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Wow... that article is long and boring.



Here is my own list on 'How to tell you are addicted to pr0n. Get your pens ready...


  1. YOU WATCH IT ALL THE TIME

*end list*
 10 years ago '04        #15
Thepeoplerunnin 
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anyway i blame these sally sue hoes who thinks we still in the 1950s.........

suck a d*ck sally, its not gonna k!ll you.............Use some teeth.......Ouch watch-out now............Dont make me choke slam you now, your doing good........BLAOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWW.......Heres your bus fare.......Where my ps3 control at now?????????


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 05-23-2008, 01:13 PM         #16
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 AK-19 said:
Here are some more:

You know the name of more then ten pr0nstars

Watching two girls make out is borrrring. Two girls who gag each other with huge dildo's, spit, choke, slap each other silly is now your minimum requirement.
spoken truth!
 10 years ago '05        #17
young jeezy478 1 heat pts
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sh*t pr0n doesnt contain STD's
 05-23-2008, 01:16 PM         #18
alias 1.0  OP
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everybody watches pr0n :rasta:
 05-23-2008, 01:22 PM         #19
StreetPoet617  OP
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...

im laughing before i even read the story.....
 05-23-2008, 01:36 PM         #20
Eqman  OP
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 Thepeoplerunnin said:
anyway i blame these sally sue hoes who thinks we still in the 1950s.........

suck a d*ck sally, its not gonna k!ll you.............Use some teeth.......Ouch watch-out now............Dont make me choke slam you now, your doing good........BLAOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWW.......Heres your bus fare.......Where my ps3 control at now?????????
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