*-InfiniMatic-* said
Damn man. I hate to ask or seem nosy but I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years now. We ok now, but sometimes it seems like the arguments we have is going to break us up. It’s used to be me talking to multiple females but I been playing this one right. I figured there’s no way people can break up off an argument, but sometimes I feel it, then it goes away. Unlike cheating, I can get over an argument.
So with all that said, I just wonder what makes a couple break up after so many years.
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Not being happy is what did it bruh. Majority of the time when a shorty get pregnant or something major happen, they change. A solid year or two now I been thuggin it out lying to my self an not being happy. Idk if maybe we grew apart , or what. But I felt like my relationship was just being held together by having kids. Which is wrong on many levels. Bc if someone not truly happy , then both ppl are cheating themselves out of a life. Now I had no problem being 2nd/3rd to my kids. But I’m still a man, I still have needs , I still have wants. I found myself having the same convo with my ex time an time again. (I need xyz from you an I’m just not getting it) and things would change for a few weeks , sh*t sometimes a few months. Then slip rigjt back into the normal routine. No intimacy on any level, no real type of communication. Just more so going through the motions. And I’d get answers in return on some sh*t like “there’s just not enough time in the day” fu*k that. You make time for what you wanna make time for. Final straw for me was on her bday last year (that’s when I broke up w her , in November) I felt highly disrespected on some sh*t bc we had plans on a Friday to have some alone time an she played the whole “I’m tired , I have a headache” bullsh*t , an was in bed when I got home from work at 9. But Saturday roll around (her actual bday) an this bi*ch was on some meet me over at my sisters after you get ready so we can all go out type sh*t. Didn’t give a single fu*k about flagging on me the night before but had all the time in the worlds for her sisters an friends. That was it for me.
That’s a lot to read , but bottom line bruh , when you start to feel like the love is changing in any form. Just let that sh*t go. I spent almost 8 years w this girl, I just turned 31 on the 16th of this month. That’s my prime years gone right there. And I just think back to how unhappy it seemed both of us was for a min now but nobody wanted to be the bad guy an take blame for breaking it off. For me now, ain no way in hell I’m gettin back into a relationship again.