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Jun 9 - Dad pays final child support payment with 80000 pennies
 

 

A Virginia man went to extreme measures to show he was not happy about paying child support.

He dumped 80,000 pennies in front of his daughter’s home as his final payment. Avery Sanford, 18, took those pennies and turned his act of anger into a positive for families in need.

What looked like a landscaping trailer dropped the pile of pennies in front of a mailbox last month.

“When I was in the middle of class, my dad came by. He had rented a trailer,” Sanford said Tuesday.

The high school senior will spend the summer at home before venturing to Virginia Tech for her freshman year.

“He pulled up in front of our house, like turned the trailer on so it dumped out all the pennies in the street in front of our house,” she said. “And my mom walked outside while it was happening. She didn’t recognize them at first. And she asked, ‘What are you dumping on my lawn?’ And he said, ‘It’s your final child support payment.’ And that’s when she realized who it was.”

She had to use a snow shovel in the summer to scoop up the domestic drama.

“It’s not just her (my mother) that he’d be trying to embarrass,” Sanford said. “It’s also me, it’s also my sister. And it’s upsetting that he doesn’t really consider that before he did this.”

Once the pennies were picked up, Sanford and her mom decided to flip the script.

They donated his last child support payment - every penny - to Safe Harbor, a domestic abuse shelter.

“Turning around and donating that money to moms and children in need, like I feel like that just really turns the situation into a positive one,” Sanford said. “You can learn a lesson from it.”

Sanford said she hasn’t spoken to her father in years.

She says the pennies incident proves she made the tough but right decision to stay clear, and she has no interest in having a relationship with anyone who disrespects her mother.

“It is really hurtful and damaging to your kids when you do things like that,” the daughter said. “And it doesn’t matter how old your kids - it doesn’t matter if they’re a young child or an adult. The actions of your parents will always have some effect on you.”

Her mother filed a police report with Henrico County police.

Her father spoke in a phone interview, saying it was 18 years of frustration built up. His emotions got the best of him, and the last thing he wanted to do was to put a further wedge between him and his daughter.






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 3 months ago '16        #2
Boogersugar  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x13
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Hope he doesn't regret blowing up his relationship with his kids as he ages

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 3 months ago '08        #3
tdnupe3 
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I was going to say something, but I'll refrain.
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 3 months ago '13        #4
jrockex 
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disrespectful af to the child
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 3 months ago '07        #5
stogz 
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I don't look at it as disrespectful.


I just look at it as a waste of time. So much effort to do some dumb petty sh*t that no one gains from.
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 3 months ago '10        #6
Nautilus O  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x3
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sh*t as least he was paying.
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 3 months ago '16        #7
Boogersugar  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x13
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 stogz said
I don't look at it as disrespectful.


I just look at it as a waste of time. So much effort to do some dumb petty sh*t that no one gains from.
Well you already know how the kids feel about it, they said so in the article. Hope his retirement is fully funded cause if not it's going to be ugly for him later on

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 3 months ago '10        #8
JudasHatesJesus 
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There has to be more. Is he frustrated that he had to pay for 18 years, frustrated about who he had her with, mad at the system or mad he didn’t make it work?

I know what it’s like to be frustrated with your child’s mother but you are supposed to think about the child and how they would perceive you and your actions. I would have gone about it a different way but if he is in her life, he would still be paying for her. Moms might have been blowing his money but donated to save face.
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 3 months ago '20        #9
I Know  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x3
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How long was the child support.

10 years damn near 100k.

Thats most of her VT education paid for
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 3 months ago '07        #10
stogz 
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 Boogersugar said
Well you already know how the kids feel about it, they said so in the article. Hope his retirement is fully funded cause if not it's going to be ugly for him later on

The putting on the lawn part is disrespect. I'm just talking about the act of paying in pennies specifically.

If someone paid me in pennies... i'd laugh at how hurt they were. I would leave msgs on their phone laughing about it, constantly. Tell the story everyone we knew... put it on social media... just spam it all throughout life. You think i'm embarrassed? Nah, i'ma make sure YOU'RE embarrassed.
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 3 months ago '19        #11
aaf192020 
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He should understand he's paying because he fxcked up and put his dxck in the wrong bxtch. If anything he should be mad at himself not some kid who didn't ask to be born. Big dummy got buyers remorse on the final payment? Clown shxt!
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 3 months ago '16        #12
Boogersugar  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x13
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 JudasHatesJesus said
There has to be more. Is he frustrated that he had to pay for 18 years, frustrated about who he had her with, mad at the system or mad he didn’t make it work?

I know what it’s like to be frustrated with your child’s mother but you are supposed to think about the child and how they would perceive you and your actions. I would have gone about it a different way but if he is in her life, he would still be paying for her. Moms might have been blowing his money but donated to save face.
Sanford said she hasn’t spoken to her father in years.

She says the pennies incident proves she made the tough but right decision to stay clear, and she has no interest in having a relationship with anyone who disrespects her mother.

“It is really hurtful and damaging to your kids when you do things like that,” the daughter said. “And it doesn’t matter how old your kids - it doesn’t matter if they’re a young child or an adult. The actions of your parents will always have some effect on you.”

Her mother filed a police report with Henrico County police.

Her father spoke in a phone interview, saying it was 18 years of frustration built up. His emotions got the best of him, and the last thing he wanted to do was to put a further wedge between him and his daughter.
Emotional n*ggas will always lose. Always.

His daughter lives there too. So when he has a big a*s truck dump 80,000 pennies on their lawn and they have to use snow shovels to scoop it all up. How long do you think that took? One hour? Two? Were they able to do it immediately or was it dumped out there while they weren't home and they saw it later? Did they have the snow shovels already or did they have to go get those and come back? I mean seriously imagine this happening in your neighborhood, where you live. How many people would be looking out their window at you while you scooped that up, how many people would fake like they had to go grab something from their car so they could get a better look.

Of course it also embarrassed the kids. She's 18 and in high school, you care a sh*tload more what other people think at 18 than you do 28.

This hoemotional a*s dude was so in his feelings that he committed what might be a crime to spite his child's mother, probably at least in part that he's paying out money for a daughter he doesn't even have a relationship with, and he has put himself in the cross-eyes of probably civil if not criminal liability and may NEVER have a relationship with his daughter now.

Emotional n*ggas always lose. They always find a way. ALWAYS

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 3 months ago '16        #13
Blunted Sultan  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x6
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 Boogersugar said
Emotional n*ggas will always lose. Always.

Emotional n*ggas always lose. They always find a way. ALWAYS

/thread

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 3 months ago '05        #14
bi0  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x2
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Nicca mad at have to be responsible for the kid he brought into this world.
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 3 months ago '06        #15
Supa mario 
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They donated the money to abuse shelter, this emotional n*gga was probably beating on the moms anyway back in the day. He take the L.
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 3 months ago '20        #16
MeNoSenYouNoCom  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x7
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 jrockex said
disrespectful af to the child
 stogz said
I don't look at it as disrespectful.


I just look at it as a waste of time. So much effort to do some dumb petty sh*t that no one gains from.
you on the outside looking in, you don't know how disrespectful those kids are or how petty that bi*ch is
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 3 months ago '15        #17
thirssty58  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x1
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Child support in this country is bordering on criminal theft on par w the IRS I get the frustration but pettiness especially to that extent is wack
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 3 months ago '17        #18
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 3 months ago '05        #19
pippen33 
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He did all that extra sh*t for $800?! He gotta be a whole bi*ch
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 3 months ago '16        #20
MulaAve  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x3
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 stogz said
The putting on the lawn part is disrespect. I'm just talking about the act of paying in pennies specifically.

If someone paid me in pennies... i'd laugh at how hurt they were. I would leave msgs on their phone laughing about it, constantly. Tell the story everyone we knew... put it on social media... just spam it all throughout life. You think i'm embarrassed? Nah, i'ma make sure YOU'RE embarrassed.
Would come off as very hurt to me
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 3 months ago '18        #21
DUCEDUCE  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x1
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Idk I hope me and my wife go sideways I never make my kid feel like I'm celebrating the final child support payment, it might be fu*k her but that's my seeds.
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 3 months ago '19        #22
GetYaCoinsKing  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x1
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She doesn't see the problem with it and only sees his actions but no one talks about the late night of OT a mf prob had to put in and for 18-yrs living under the threat of possibly going to jail for non-payment; Petty or not i don't blame him one bit.
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 3 months ago '16        #23
foshoVoodoo  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x46
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Not mad at the niccu pennies is legal tender. Bet that bi*ch wasn't worth one of them pennies. He gave her 80000. If anything y'all being emotional
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 3 months ago '13        #24
Commission 
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Everything counts
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 3 months ago '11        #25
Tony Franks  topics gone triple plat - Number 1 spot x2
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if he already had the pennies, id think it was acceptable. Not if he had to go get pennies for this "project"



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